FRIENDS and a foe

No, this time I ain’t talking about F.R.I.E.N.D.S.-- the series, but friends, the people : )

People who understand, be with us, allow us to be what we are : ) because bettering us will change the person we are : ) and they really don’t want us to change coz they love US and not the better person emerging out of us :P

So much has been already said about friends… so much written but even after everything is said and done, there still more.. and I feel each of our lives is just incomplete without this realization. Understanding your composition is the most satiating thing one can do in life. And when one realizes it, believe me, world’s the bliss land!

Not that I have figured it out all and rightly, but the incoherence of my mind of understanding my constitution has started to un-mess up : ) Ob it is the family, that goes even without mentioning it. But My Friends are the most significant part of who/what/where/how I am … its dire for me to think of myself without my buddies. There have been times when I might have helped them but there have been more of it when they’ve understood me totally without making an issue of my mistakes. And there’s no way I can thank them for what they have given me. A guilt free life. I love you all, friends! ( I really wanna tag so many people here )

Even as I write this, it all flashes in fronta my eyes, the times we spent, the fun we had, the quarrels we had, the crushes we had, the pokers, the rides, the laughs, the trips, the accidents, the lunches, the brunches, the naps, the Coffees, the movies, the walks, the talks, the gossips, the nights and I can go on and on and on, (don’t get me started :P)

There should be somebody who is there to give you a stern look when you’re drifting from the hypothetically correct path, somebody to share your laughs to make them denser somebody to share your blues to make the shade lighter… somebody who makes you realize that you have a might of a Tiger (even when you are actually a bheegi billi :P) , somebody who’d give it up all to make you realize your strength (irrespective of its actual existence : P ).. who compliments you and complements you…

They're the indispensable and most significant part of who I’m or for that matter who whoever is! It’s oozing out right now coz of the realization that now graduation’s on the threshold of ending and everybody at the onset of a new life ahead… this realization, though, is hell.

My foe consistently wins… yes, my foe, the TIME, who will soon take away all my friends… all my people….a major part of what composes me.. But it’s a struggle. Struggle where I’ll make a supreme effort to dilute its, weaken its resolve, offset its aim and de-intensify its effect! I wont let ‘time’ take away my friends from me for its my priceless & beautiful possession. And this struggle, I name it LIFE !!!

Its all about being apart yet so close, and subside effect of TIME.